I need some help, guidance, or advice. Anything, really.

I feel a heaviness in my chest from time to time. I'm not good with girls, I don't know how to treat them or respect them properly because I believe that I am "manipulative by nature". I desire a lot of other female friends of mine, and it makes me feel bad about myself for seeing them as merely sex partners. I know that I peruse any sexual involvement with them, it'll blow up in my face and end up with more heartache and a broken friendship. How do I quell this desire? I want to stop wanting, to become someone better, to find peace. I'm sorry if none of this correlates with Buddhism, but I felt as if the community would have the answers that I'm looking for. Thank you.

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