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Issues with material desire

Hey sanga, I am a college student and I've been wrestling with this issue for a while. I often find myself looking at attractive women (especially my class mates) and wondering what it would be like to, ya know, be with them. I've been dating this girl for almost 3 years now, since high school, and she's cute but I find myself feeling much more impassioned seeing a hot girl who isn't her. I often think about breaking up with her and going for some of these girls I see at school. The thing is, me and my girlfriend are close as you can imagine. She's shown me the kindest love for years and she's my friend. I feel torn and I'm quite new to buddhism. Please tell me whether this thought process is destructive and help me see the issue from the Buddha's perspective. Please friends!

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